Beatrice Wairimu Mbugua — better known as Betty Bayo — the beloved Kenyan gospel singer whose voice moved congregations from Nairobi to the diaspora, died on November 10, 2025, at 1:03 p.m. at Kenyatta National Hospital in Nairobi. She was 42. The cause: acute leukemia, complicated by uncontrolled bleeding. Her death, confirmed by a family representative, ended a months-long battle that began with fatigue and escalated into a frantic medical dash from AAR Hospital on Kiambu Road to the capital’s largest public hospital. Her final Facebook post, from the day before she passed, read: "I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me." It wasn’t a farewell. It was a prayer.
A Second Chance, A Sacred Union
Betty Bayo’s marriage to businessman Hiram Gitau, alias "Tash," wasn’t just a union — it was a redemption story. They tied the knot in a private Kikuyu traditional ceremony called ruracio on December 17, 2021, after two years of courtship. For Bayo, it was "an answered prayer." Gitau, a father of two from a prior marriage, had been quietly supportive through her health struggles. Friends say he never missed a hospital visit. On social media, he called her "my peace." And when news broke, he broke. A viral video showed him crumpled on a hospital bench, weeping uncontrollably, his face buried in his hands as a relative tried to steady him. Kenyans scrolled through it in silence. No captions needed. The grief was universal.
Blended Family, Unified Love
Bayo had two children from her first marriage to Pastor Victor Mwangi Kanyari: daughter Sky, who moved to Texas for school in 2024, and son Danny, whose life remains largely private. Gitau had two children of his own. Together, they didn’t just co-parent — they celebrated each other’s kids. Birthday posts on Instagram showed Gitau with Bayo’s daughter Sky, smiling beside her. Bayo, in turn, posted tributes to Gitau’s children on holidays. "Real is rare," she wrote on his birthday in July 2025. "I celebrate you and I love you." That wasn’t performative. That was parenting with grace. Even after her diagnosis, she made sure Sky’s school applications were submitted. She didn’t just fight cancer — she fought to be present.
A Legacy in Song and Silence
Betty Bayo rose from Banana, Kiambu County, to become one of Kenya’s most resonant gospel voices. Her 2018 hit "11th Hour" became an anthem for the weary — a song about hope arriving just when you think it’s too late. Fans still play it in churches, in taxis, in homes where silence has replaced prayer. Reverend Muthee Kiengei, a gospel minister and close friend, said on social media: "She leaves behind a legacy of a great contribution in the growth of the Gospel Music industry, friendship and a soul that maximised its full potential." His words echoed across platforms. Within hours, tributes poured in from artists, pastors, and ordinary listeners who said her music got them through divorce, loss, and depression.
Even her ex-husband, Pastor Victor Mwangi Kanyari, acknowledged her passing with a simple, heartbreaking post: "R.I.P Mama Sky. The mother to my kids." It was a quiet acknowledgment — no drama, no blame. Just love, unchanged by time or separation.
The Final Days
Bayo had been unwell since early November. She was first admitted to AAR Hospital on Kiambu Road on November 5, but her condition worsened rapidly. By Friday, November 8, she was transferred to Kenyatta National Hospital’s private wing. Her family kept updates sparse, fearing rumors. On November 9, she posted her final message. The next day, she was gone. The Kenya Times reported she was "popularly known as Betty Bayo," but her full name — Beatrice Wairimu Mbugua — carried weight in her community. She was born to a family of churchgoers. She sang in choirs before she could read music. She didn’t chase fame. Fame chased her.
What Comes Next?
Her daughter Sky, now in Texas, is expected to return to Kenya for the funeral, which is scheduled for November 18 at the Family Church in Nairobi. Gitau has not made public statements beyond his grief. But those close to him say he’s focused on ensuring her children are cared for — financially, emotionally, spiritually. A foundation in her name is reportedly being planned, with proceeds going to children’s cancer care in Kenya. No details have been released yet, but whispers in Nairobi’s music circles suggest it will be named after "11th Hour."
Why This Hits So Deep
Betty Bayo’s death isn’t just the loss of a singer. It’s the loss of a woman who turned pain into praise. She didn’t hide her scars. She sang through them. Her marriage to Gitau showed that love doesn’t require perfection — just presence. Her relationship with her ex-husband proved that co-parenting can transcend divorce. And her final months, spent in hospitals and on social media, reminded a nation: you don’t need to be young to be powerful. You just need to be honest.
Frequently Asked Questions
How did Betty Bayo’s illness progress before her death?
Betty Bayo began experiencing fatigue and weakness in early November 2025. She was initially treated at AAR Hospital in Kiambu County, but her condition deteriorated rapidly, with severe bleeding complications linked to her acute leukemia. She was transferred to Kenyatta National Hospital on November 8 and passed away on November 10, just three days after the move. Family sources confirmed the progression was swift and unexpected, despite prior medical monitoring.
Who are Betty Bayo’s children, and what is their current situation?
Betty Bayo had two children with her first husband, Pastor Victor Mwangi Kanyari: daughter Sky, who relocated to Texas for education in 2024, and son Danny, whose whereabouts and personal details remain private. Hiram Gitau, her husband, has two children from a prior relationship. The blended family was known to be close-knit, with both parents actively involved in all four children’s lives. Sky is expected to return to Kenya for her mother’s funeral.
What was the nature of Betty Bayo’s relationship with her ex-husband, Pastor Kanyari?
Bayo and Pastor Victor Mwangi Kanyari separated in 2015, though she reportedly never formally divorced him under church law. Despite the separation, both maintained mutual respect, especially regarding their children. Kanyari publicly acknowledged her death with a touching social media message calling her "Mama Sky," showing he still honored her role as mother to their kids. Their relationship defied the typical post-divorce narrative — it was quiet, dignified, and rooted in shared parenting.
How did Hiram Gitau react to Betty Bayo’s death, and what’s his role now?
Hiram Gitau was reportedly inconsolable, captured in a viral video sobbing uncontrollably at the hospital. Friends say he was her primary caregiver during her illness. Now, he is focused on managing her estate, ensuring her children’s future, and planning a memorial foundation in her name. Though he has not spoken publicly since her passing, his grief has become a symbol of quiet, devoted love in a culture that often celebrates loud expressions of emotion.
What impact did Betty Bayo have on Kenya’s gospel music scene?
Betty Bayo’s song "11th Hour" became a national anthem of resilience, played in churches, funerals, and even hospitals. She brought raw emotion to gospel music, blending traditional Kikuyu melodies with contemporary worship. Artists like Mercy Masika and Dorcas Kirui have cited her as an influence. Her authenticity — singing through pain, divorce, and loss — made her relatable to thousands who felt unseen. Her legacy isn’t just in albums, but in the way she made faith feel human.
Is there a memorial fund or foundation being created in Betty Bayo’s name?
Yes, according to insiders close to the family, a foundation in her name is being established, likely called "The 11th Hour Foundation," with the goal of funding pediatric cancer care and music therapy programs in Kenya. While no official launch date has been announced, discussions are underway with hospitals and music organizations. The initiative is expected to be led by Hiram Gitau, alongside Bayo’s siblings and close friends from the gospel community.
Mitch Roberts
i cant even process this. betty was the voice i played when i was crying in my car after my divorce. her song 11th hour saved me. no words. just tears. god bless her family.